- If the adoptee really loved his/her adoptive parents, he/she would not search for his/her birth parents.
- Birth parents forget about the child who was adopted.
- If the adoptive parents do a good job of parenting their child, the child will never want to search.
- An adopted child gets very little from his/her genetic line (Nurture vs. Nature).
- Most birth parents do not want contact with the child they placed for adoption.
- Searching for birth parents will destroy or seriously damage the relationship the adoptee has with his/her adoptive parents.
- All adopted children/adults will want to search.
- Birth parents will never see their relinquished child again.