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  • If the adoptee really loved his/her adoptive parents, he/she would not search for his/her birth parents.
  • Birth parents forget about the child who was adopted.
  • If the adoptive parents do a good job of parenting their child, the child will never want to search.
  • An adopted child gets very little from his/her genetic line (Nurture vs. Nature).
  • Most birth parents do not want contact with the child they placed for adoption.
  • Searching for birth parents will destroy or seriously damage the relationship the adoptee has with his/her adoptive parents.
  • All adopted children/adults will want to search.
  • Birth parents will never see their relinquished child again.

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